yes ,its quite difficult to analyze your own self .
if an individual is not doing his /her duties properly ;then how can he /she complain about an ineffective politicians ,Generals ,beaurocrats , media men and judges ????
that was my whole point to initiate this thread .
as it seems some of us ,loosing the grip of the actual spirit of the thread ....
i can put my own self analysis here with total honesty :
Me as a daughter :
well ,i always tries to be obedient to my parents .
but i sometimes ,fails to do so ....
some time ,due to some work pressures ,i fail to oby my parents ..like they wanna me to come back home on time and spend time with them but i regretfully can not manage to do so ,due to work pressure makes me stay late in the evenings .
since my Mother has passed away ; i have left with load of regrets with me ,that i could have taken some days off ,when she wanna me to be there at her bed side ...
alas ....this regret will follow me till my grave ...
as an employee:
i works with an ad agency ,with utmost responsibility ,as much as i can ...i stay back and work on weekends ,if it needed ...i go extra miles to help out my other colleagues too ....
but yes ,sometimes ,i got negative about everything .
due to my salary and other previlgies which are not matching to my work load ...
then i do become lazy and careless towards the work...
spending office hours at pkpolitics is also what i should not do it ...
i do back bite about my Bosses too ...
which i should not ....
as a sister :
i always tries to be loving with my sisters .
try to make them happy by reminding their birthdays and small things ...
i keep giving them gifts and i feel good about it ...
but sometimes i fight with them too ...(verbal fights)
as a Boss :
i have 4 to 5 ppl working under me ...
i always try to be nice with them ...
and not to do with them ,what i hate to do my boss ,doing with me ...
i try to get hold of their personal problems and they share them with me .
i take burdens of their works ,if they are going through any problem or pressure on their home fronts .
but sometimes ,i get upset on their stupid mistakes .
i sometimes shouts on them too ....
as a neighbor :
i am not a very social person ...as was my Mom use to be ...
but i respect my neighbors a lot .
and try to visit them in their happy and sad moments .
as a Bandi of Allah ,i try to pray 5 times a day but missed sometimes due to office meetings .....
but i very ,very strong believer of Duaa and the power of Allah the Almighty being the Muskil Kusha ....
this is what i am .....
and what about u ppl ?????
do u think ,i deserve an honest leader ?
a just court system?
and a great army and a neutral media ??????
or not ?
Posted 1 year ago on 09 Jun 2010 6:09
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