I have noticed that there exists a gap, a gulf in the expectations an individual has from a State, and how he expects the state to fulfill them. This disconnect fuels discontent and makes the state's job of keeping its citizens satisfied difficult and nearly impossible. This is true for our society and elsewhere to.
An example is,
Rapid population growth in our country. The individual feels it is his right to have as many children as he wants. It is common to see 4 or more children in a family, especially in the rural areas, and to some extent in the urban areas. The individual has as many children as he likes and then expects the State to provide employment & other facilities to them.
The State has a hard time making future growth plans as it does not have an accurate idea for how much citizens to plan for. It must work with various growth scenarios at best, which may turn out to be right or wrong. The loss of control over population growth hampers it ability to effectively plan & provide. Also, it may be the case that population growth exceeds the state's abilities and resources. It is not possible for it to make sure everyone is employed & other amenities are provided.
Other examples include providing security to its citizens, optimum number of educated professionals in a field, and import export trade issues.
How can we reduce the divide b/w the citizen & state. Should the citizen himself be proactive and take some responsibility, or should the state become more authoritarian in its policies. One thing is certain, the citizen cannot keep on acting like the state has a magic wand to fulfill all his wishes. Any ideas.