@Khan sahib,
for your info..
i have sent same kind of mails to Heather Ali and Oriel too.
both responded positively .
but said they would wait and visit site first to observe changes and improvements .
it means i give importance to all the serious and valuable members of the forum and not to any particular one ...
here i have posted only Sheikh sahib...coz he has permitted me to post it here ...
but for your info..i am pasting here the mail exchange between me and Heather .
here u go:
Hi Beena,
Many Thanks for your email. I really Appreciate your email and the fact that you guys have been very good in moderating this site. I am sure that after the addition of semirza, you will have more control on people like skyfacts.
The reason, I left that site was the fact that most of our Scholars have started religious debates (of a high intellectual type above my IQ, as I live in real world and prefer to talk about "Common" problems first!) though Skyfacts did freaked me out, and you Know why?
I have already been approached by Khan_Sahib (who is a very good person and more practical then most of us) and I told him that I have no problem in returning but I really want Oriel and JS and now Ijay to return too. These People are the real Power and although I may differ in views with JS, I have a lot of respect for JS. I am not taking credit but Khan Sahib also did leave this forum and when I chatted to him, I did made him return. This is the guy who has worked so hard in different projects in pakistan without even mentioning it to anyone. The reason, I know this because, I was part of the team who went to Pakistan after Kashmir earthquake and for Swat IDP's. I got irritated of skyfacts as he was blaming Oriel, Khan Sahib and myself for being one person. As I didn't want to disclose anything about Oriel and khan sahib, i just decided to Quit.
Beena,
I hope you will try to bring back all the members who left! I am away for some days but will Inshallah return soon.
Again, Many Thanks for your email.
Heather
Date: Sun, 9 Aug 2009 20:58:19 -0700
From: beenai786@yahoo.com
Subject: Hi Heather Ali ,this is Beenai from pkpoltics discuss
To:
Dear Heather_Ali
We may be living far away from each other but thanks to technology this feeling is at a reduced level, only your presence will alleviate this feeling completely. At least for friends of pkp discuss forum.
As members of pkpolitics our scholarly interactions made this thing happen. A subtle and gentle bond developed, of belonging as forum friends, and you know why? Because we friends share a common brain wave length, the reason why we never had conflict of ideas.
At pkpolitics discuss forum, a lot has changed and the rest is changing, for good of course. We have decided to maintain discipline on the forum at all levels.
Skyfact has been banned, as a lesson for him and for others with a loud and clear message; no member should indulge in, and refrain from the use of humiliating, mocking, disgracing, insulting language in general and specially for the ladies presence on the forum. We have already posted a code of conduct for the members to comply. Rebels are not being and never will be tolerated. As a suggestion, why not you ladies just have a ‘peek’ into what is happening, at least have a look at the new COC!
Please don’t leave us as we feel left alone; when ever we are logged on we miss you. We thought of ‘talking’ to you before we are going to post an ‘appeal for your return’ to pkpolitics, seconded by others. And this we are going to do right now.
Think all being together once again, at the forum asking Mr. Javed Shaikh to forgive us, along with due respects that we owe him.
Please, please, please reconsider not leaving us rather joining us.
Pkpolitics discuss forum moderators
Beenai
Semirza
here is my mail exchange with Oriel.
Dear Beenai, Ma'Salaam,
Thank you for your email. I will consider it well.
Please understand the taking part in pkpolitics discussions must be within your given guidelines. By 'your' I mean that of Admin, Semirza and your kind self.
I have indeed been visiting the site each day to see the improvements being made in regulation. It is to your credit that the moderators and admin are working heard to sift the resonable discussions from the nonsensical.
Please do tell me what steps have been taken or can possibly be taken to stop a person logging in to the forum with multiple id's. Personally this mentality of mulitple id's strikes me as a weakness in the character of the user, but it becomes ridiculous to have a discussion with the same person in several different guises. What can be done about this?
How are your efforts going to bring back J.S?
Will await your reply in eagerness.
Much love,
Date: Sun, 9 Aug 2009 20:59:42 -0700
From: beenai786@yahoo.com
Subject: Hi Oriel,this is Beenai from pkpolitics discuss
To:
Dear Oriel,
We may be living far away from each other but thanks to technology this feeling is at a reduced level, only your presence will alleviate this feeling completely. At least for friends of pkp discuss forum.
As members of pkpolitics our scholarly interactions made this thing happen. A subtle and gentle bond developed, of belonging as forum friends, and you know why? Because we friends share a common brain wave length, the reason why we never had conflict of ideas.
At pkpolitics discuss forum, a lot has changed and the rest is changing, for good of course. We have decided to maintain discipline on the forum at all levels.
Skyfact has been banned, as a lesson for him and for others with a loud and clear message; no member should indulge in, and refrain from the use of humiliating, mocking, disgracing, insulting language in general and specially for the ladies presence on the forum. We have already posted a code of conduct for the members to comply. Rebels are not being and never will be tolerated. As a suggestion, why not you ladies just have a ‘peek’ into what is happening, at least have a look at the new COC!
Please don’t leave us as we feel left alone; when ever we are logged on we miss you. We thought of ‘talking’ to you before we are going to post an ‘appeal for your return’ to pkpolitics, seconded by others. And this we are going to do right now.
Think all being together once again, at the forum asking Mr. Javed Shaikh to forgive us, along with due respects that we owe him.
Please, please, please reconsider not leaving us rather joining us.
Pkpolitics discuss forum moderators
Beenai
Semirza