Why Marriage is essential in this world and Islam

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Why Marriage is essential in this world and Islam

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IJay
member

When ever i see this word "Marriage" i always ask why! its essential as Muslims and Human.One of the religious reason is to keep yourself protected from Zina It means if i don't want to indulge in zina i should get married.

Allah created Adam and then eve.Their private parts were hidden from each other.satan instigated eve and adam as a result they ate prohibited food which revealed their private parts to each other.It means after the creation
of Adam and eve ALLAH does not want to reproduce humans at that time.

The first human was born on this world as a result of sex desire of adam and eve.All human beings including you and me all are result of sex desires.

Now lets go back to our topic "marriage" legal way to fulfill your sex desire or we do need life partner in life.
Half life as a human we lived to fulfill the expectations and desires of our parents and family.After marriage we spend next part of our satisfying the needs of wife or children.Both of them leave you alone during your life.

The biggest arman or wish of every mother "meri beeti ka ghar bas jae,us ko acha shohar mil jae,us ke bachay hojae pher mere senay ko thandak mil jae gi" have you ever seen any mother say i want my daughter to become top class doctor,engineer or lawyer of this world.why all of us look for wife or GF in every girl.why mother only wanted to see her daughter in wedding dress.

Do you think the main purpose of existence of female is to become your wife and mother of your children? Both Men women tie knot to satisfy their body needs!

The objective of all material i mentioned above is identify the purpose of marriage in life.lets discuss this topic on religious and scientific basis and try to find the answer

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 8:09 #
talalkhan
Member

You have mixed up religion and science.Therefore you will not get any clear-cut answer.
Marriage is like property. The couple are the owners of each other and society does not allow anyone to tresspass their relations.Their kids have an identity.The family remains intact.There is no adhocism or chaops. it is a social need.

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 8:57 #
aristotle
Member

Ijay
what do u want to say? I couldn’t get ur point.. r u going to marry?:) congratulations

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 9:06 #
skyfacts
Blocked

Rules and regulations are their in ISLAM to go with a succesfull marriage.
Islam just not only teach about marriages but also having a strong regulatory procedures to go with.....

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 9:35 #
skyfacts
Blocked

IJay,
Introduce ur self pls in the thread related...To avoid any ambiguity pls.......honest members should have to go with it...

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 9:36 #
talalkhan
Member

skyfact! And other religions have loose marital systems?Is marriage a joke in other culture and religions?

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 9:49 #
LetsDoIt
Member

Marriage is given utmost importance in Islam and there is a reason behind that. For sure one purpose of the marriage is to allow a legal way to satisfy your sexual desires but thats not all. If that was the only thing why would have our beloved Prophet PBUH said:

Marriage is half the deen.

There are 4 kinds of matters in which we get involved in our life. The first are the personal matters like drinking eating sleeping praying fasting etc. The second type of matters are related with your family and family life, the third kind of matters are associated with your social life or how you behave in a society, and last are the matters of the state.

If you study Quran, the prime importance is given to the personal and family matters and after that the most important thing is the social matters and lastly only few rules are given to run the state matters. and this is because the importance of a strong family life is very high for any society. All the crime starts if you have problems in your family life. How many people having very good family life are criminals?

There are lot of things associated with marriage, you need to be good husband, you need to be good father, you have to teach your children good manners, you have a whole responsibility and thats what makes marriage a half deen. This topic needs lot of details but i dont want to make my post lengthy so i stop here.

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 11:04 #
IJay
member

There are lot of things associated with marriage, you need to be good husband, you need to be good father, you have to teach your children good manners, you have a whole responsibility and thats what makes marriage a half deeM

rEPLY:

WHERE IS MY PART OF LIFE! i HAVE TO LIVE MY LIFE FOR OTHERS SO WHEN CAN I LIVE FOR ME! I AM HERE TO BE GOOD SON THEN GOOD FATHER THEN GOOD HUSBAND AND DIE!

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 11:44 #
LetsDoIt
Member

I am not sure about your question, do you want to discuss the personal life. marriage means what you get and what you give. please clarify your question

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 11:56 #
Red-Scorpion
Blocked

Sex is a biological need and to fulfill this need both male and female need their opposites !
For me marriage is a social contract which allows a male and female to live together.

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 12:09 #
skyfacts
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talal khan wrote,
skyfact! And other religions have loose marital systems?Is marriage a joke in other culture and religions?

I DO NOT REPLY TO UNKNOWN AND (DOUBTFULL TO ME) ID's...

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 12:34 #
shikra
Blocked

Did some one force you to reproduce the postings from Talal Khan?
Reproduction in itself is reply.

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 12:38 #
IJay
member

Letsdoit!
marriage means what you get and what you give. please clarify your question

Reply:
tell me what we get after marriage ? and what we give?

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 12:53 #
shikra
Blocked

My dear skyfacts, you are absolutely lost and got confused with ID's Phobia.
I would be the last person to conclude that Skyfacts, NNL, Chechan, Msohail83 is only one person with different ID's as all of them have the same frequency.
One or four in one, it doesn't matter.
There could be more persons of your kind. they have every right to keep up with their point of view but abusive and personal remarks could put you and your philosophy down.
It could drain the force of your arguments to gutter.
That's what happened to you within a few weeks.

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 12:57 #
shikra
Blocked

Internationally recognized principles of rationality are always right and need to be accepted and respected from all the angles.
Frustration is looking for the eye glasses without eye glasses.

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 13:15 #
sasherwani
Members

lol its true.. this skyfacts is like the boy who cried wolf.. he himself probably has two/three different ID's (He and chechen, MSohail have the same fundoo views and make the same grammatical mistakes)...and he tries to divert attention from his own multiple-personality-disorder..but who cares even he does have multiple IDs ? We are ready to kick the butt of all his IDs...this is the advantage of being the smarter one ;)

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 13:42 #
azizi
Member

-- Man created the institution of marriage because he did not want to raise someone else’s offspring --

Question: Is marriage necessary in today’s world? As in most of the western world’s law, the state owns the children. Parents only get a conditional lease for the first 18 years?

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 20:59 #
IJay
member

etsdoit!
marriage means what you get and what you give. please clarify your question

Reply:
tell me what we get after marriage ? and what we give?

WE CAME ALONE WE GO ALONE! THIS IS REALITY OF LIFE

Posted 2 years ago on 05 Aug 2009 23:45 #
shikra
Blocked

Who performed the Nikkah of Adam and Eve?
Was their act of Sex Halal or Haram?
If the cohabitation was against the Will of God, then whole of the Mankind, born out of their sexual performance, is ****.
lo kar lo baat.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 12:29 #
talalkhan
Member

shikra
You are a genius, Keep it up

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 13:12 #
Red-Scorpion
Blocked

@shikra

You are a doing excellent job !
Keep it up, comrade !

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 13:13 #
shikra
Blocked

@ Tala khan , Red-Scorpion,
Thanks for your appreciation.
Here I must admit that most of the credit goes to Javed Sheikh, Fahim, Peterpan, Beena, Heather and few others who provided with a lot of information at the pkpolitics.
You know being a physician I have very little time to read all about politics, religion and literature.
What I did, asked my assistant Bengali nurse at my clinic to save some useful postings from these scholars at the hard disc.
What I use to understand a point, when needed.
Anyway I am thankful to your encouragement.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 13:47 #
chechen
Member

Shikra seems to be suffering mental depravation living in Western mental asylums. He is unaware that the sharia to differentiate between halaal and haraam was established when mankind evolved into tribes and nations. There was a sharia of Moses As and Jesus and reached its finality with Mohammad SAS. There was nothing illegal about the first marriage as the Creator Himself was witness and created the pair. No wonder such questions emanate from shikra living in an environment where Jesus is labeled as gay and Prophet SAS nauzubillah as pedophile. Making fun of great Prophets and Islam get you instant celebrity status in that rotten environment. Be it Salman Rushdi or Irshad Manji.

This kind of questions are hallmark of Shaitan that have infiltrated the mindset of Shikra and the mental freaks, Talal and scorpion.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 14:20 #
shikra
Blocked

Why the so-called preachers of religion become offended so quickly?
At a point I am taught that God advised Hazrat Adam (a prophet) not to eat a certain fruit in order to avoid sex.
But he disobeyed God's command and did that.
Now they teach that Allah was witness.
Why Hazrat Adam was not punished of disobeying Allah?
The answer to this question could help all of us about the origin and the evolution of Religions.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 15:54 #
Fahim23
Member

Marriage is a social legal contract between two persons and their off spring. It is essential because without this contract things would be way too complicated for them. Marriage lays down the roles and responsibilities of each individual.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 16:29 #
chechen
Member

Why Hazrat Adam was not punished of disobeying Allah

What more punishment he could have got than sent to this rotten planet from heavenly paradise , where he was content and had food descending to him in shape of manna and salwa.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 16:34 #
semirza
Moderator

@chechen
manna and salwa! for yahood it was, while Adam had all the paradise to himself.

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 16:43 #
chechen
Member

Jazakallah. I thought manna and salwa was heavely food

Posted 2 years ago on 06 Aug 2009 16:47 #
talalkhan
Member

Is there any empirical evidence available for these stories of Adam and Eve?.Chechen,then you should also believe that earth quacks are caused by shaking of Bull's horns on which this world is fixed.Reason-being that Adam and Eve Story is in the same testament as is the bull's story.

Posted 2 years ago on 07 Aug 2009 11:31 #