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Why Pakistani men like chubby women?

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  1. bsobaid

    Atleast Punjabi and Pathan like curvy and chubbier women, while rest of the world seem to like thinner women.

    This is evident from women in showbiz.

    Why Pakistani men have unique aesthetic/sexual preferences?

    Yes, I am tried of PTI Vs. Noon...
    So please dont drag them here..

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 16:45 #
  2. SufiSoul

    PTI have smart women workers while PPPP and PMLN are filled with Tahmina 2 latana and Farzana type.....:P

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 16:52 #
  3. ali

    @bsodaid

    yar fat nae curvy women

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 17:09 #
  4. bsobaid

    ab khush ali bhai?

    but if you ask me, the punjabi stage dancers are all fat, which is beyond being curvy.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 17:11 #
  5. Dusky

    ^^the punjabi stage dancers are all fat

    holy crap.... you watch that crap??;)

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 17:23 #
  6. bsobaid

    I watched a few of them in aik din geo kay saath...
    and then a few more in a news show..cant remember the name..some forum..where they had groups debating for and against topic of the day.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 17:55 #
  7. bsobaid

    Is it because in our subconcious we see women only as a mean to reproduce and a fatter woman is suitable for that than a slim woman?

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 18:08 #
  8. SufiSoul

    you watch that crap??;)
    ___________________________

    kuch log IBRAT k liye dekhty hain aisi cheezain....")

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 18:19 #
  9. bsobaid

    haahaaa..

    well said sufi..

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 18:41 #
  10. EasyGo

    ایک تو یہ صحت اور کھانے پینے کے بارے میں پاکستانی کم ہی کونسرنڈ نظر آتے ہیں
    توعورتیں کیا مرد بھی ماشااللہ اکثر پہلوان بن جاتے ہیں تو پھر جو میسر ہو اسی پر صبر شکر کرنا ہے
    البتہ میرے خیال میں "ان ٹچ ابھرتے جوانوں" کی اکثریت سلم سمارٹ کو ہی پسند کرتی ہے
    ہاں یہ ہو سکتا ہے جس کو تجربہ ہو جاتا ہو وہ مختلف طریقے سے سوچنا شروع کر دیتا ہو
    :) :)

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:11 #
  11. Qaiser Nadeem

    Yaar coments hi ker rahay Kuch sample tou dikhao? Nargis waghaira ka hai kuch silsila?

    This reminds me of a joke about a molvi:

    Once some one asked a molvi "what do you prefer halwa or chicken"?

    Molvi said after a brief pause "shariat ki rooh kay tanazur mein dono parties ki ghair mojoodgi mein faisala nahi ho sakta, lihaza Dino ko paish kiya jaye ".

    Isiliye yahan bhi saboot aur mulzim kay baghair Faisala nahi ho sakta,

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:13 #
  12. siddiqi73

    Yaroon, ab yeh din bhee dekhnay thay kay hum yahan par curves aur D-Cup sizes kee baateein karain gai!!!!!!

    Sufi Bhai,

    Tehmina 2 lanata aur Farza Type tu samajh gai, ab bhai yeh bhee bata do kay PTI nay apni Sanas, Reemas, Sadia Imams, Katrinas, Kareenas, Karismas, Beyonce waghaira kahan chuppa kar rakhee hain. Ya aap Aunty Fauzia Pasoori ko smart aur curvy samajhtay hain? Agar jawab HAAN hai tu meray mohtaram, pehli fursat mein apni aankhein kisi achay optometrist say check karwa lain.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:20 #
  13. expakistani

    Not sure about Chubby but curve per har koi pesal jata hey....

    EasyGo
    جس کو تجربہ ہو جاتا ہو وہ مختلف طریقے سے سوچنا شروع کر دیتا ہو

    or jes ko na ho woh kesi per machal jata hey....

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:53 #
  14. bsobaid

    haa haa..good one Qaiser and EAsy..

    but I wonder why?? dunya bhar mein patli dubli kay peechay hein awam aur hamaray yehaa filmstar Saima aur dossri moti moti heroines?

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:55 #
  15. bsobaid

    but ex, punjabi and pashto stars are not even curvy, they are plain fat...

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:55 #
  16. فارغ جذباتی

    Obaid Chacha

    kiya baat kerte hain aap.
    zara iss khabar ko parh lein.

    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/3429903.stm

    http://www.allwestafrica.com/080720105396.html

    BTW I spent nearly two years working in Nigeria and they have the same ideas about women beauty.

    FJ

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 19:58 #
  17. bsobaid

    wahh..kia link dhoond kay laey hein FJay...

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 20:00 #
  18. فارغ جذباتی

    Obaid Mian

    Meera nahin khiaal keh moti aurtein pakistan main khobsorti ki alaamat samjhi jaati hain.

    ager Urdu Shaairi ko dekhein to uss main hmaisha patli kamar ka zikar milta hai naa keh do marle ke kamree ka

    FJ

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 20:04 #
  19. Bawa

    @ SufiSoul
    PTI have smart women workers while PPPP and PMLN are filled with Tahmina 2 latana and Farzana type.....:P

    کہیں آپکا اشارہ ربیعہ ضیاء کی طرف تو نہیں ہے کیونکہ وہی ایک سمارٹ ہے

    باقی تو ساری فوزیہ چڑیل ہی ہیں

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 20:08 #
  20. bsobaid

    Laikin sir,

    Urdu shairy is inspired from farsi traditions and they tend to use the same analogies as in farsi traditions.
    Laikin yes, you are right in the sense that this should have reflected in our literature if fat women were preferred in the society.

    I should also note, in Mantoo kay afsanay, he has alluded towards bharay hoey jism when describing overly emotional situations and if I remember correctly, Quratul-ain Haider has also made similar indications. So when it does come to describing such emotions among awam, some of them do resort to fatter women than slimmer.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 20:11 #
  21. Qaiser Nadeem

    I think Obaid bhai jaisa Sharif admi poori Baat nahi samjh sakta. Asl mein Obaid bhai, Pakistaniyun khaas ker Punjab aur kpk waghaira mein women with well endowed assets pasand ki jaati hain which is the case with Africans and Arabs as well, ya know what i mean. They are not necessarily Fat but full of naswani husn.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 20:31 #
  22. bsobaid

    I see what you mean Qaiser.

    I am trying to find out why rest of the world seem to go the opposite way..

    I think even bollywood heroines are all slim...which shows Indian people also tend to like slimmer women..

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 20:40 #
  23. فارغ جذباتی

    Obaid Mian

    The fact you are mentioning is not limited to Pakistan or sub-continent region.

    The trend of slim women or size zero women even in the west is not more than 50-60 years old. If you read the old English literature or period movies/dramas you will find that this was the norm in every society.

    The old notion about women used to be that a chubby women will bear healthy and strong children. That's why a little fat or what you call a chubby women were preferred by men and society and women would put some weight and have a large waist line.

    I hope this will clarify.

    FJ

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 21:00 #
  24. bsobaid

    theek farmaaya aap ne.

    Actually I made a similar point in my earlier post here

    http://pkpolitics.com/discuss/topic/why-pakistani-men-like-fat-women#post-315073

    Not to turn this tread into a debate on feminism, but this preference has something to do with women's perception.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 21:02 #
  25. zardaro

    Obaid....before you start thinking about women as either fat or thin or curvy maybe you can tell us about yourself? Are you fat or skinny? How tall are you? Do you consider yourself handome or are you one of those ugly **** karachiites who roams around with spittle drooling from your lips?

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 22:24 #
  26. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    What is common between African American, Brazilian, Egyptian, Punjabi and Pathan have common? A desire to marry fat woman. It based on common economic principle: supply and demand.

    Besides, I think it has something to do with primitivism and illiteracy.

    Posted 2 years ago on 15 Mar 2012 23:55 #
  27. Qaiser Nadeem

    Lo Ji gayi bhains paani mein!

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 0:18 #
  28. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    Yeqeenan tum ney hee bhains kay saath kuch kia hoga:)

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 1:56 #
  29. Qaiser Nadeem

    Bhai ki qasam, mein nay Khushbakht Shujaat (bhai or Behan??)ko haath bhi nahi lagaya!

    ;)

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 2:06 #
  30. bsobaid

    Qaim, did,nt understand supply demand....

    So you also seem to think this has to do with women's perception in men's eyes.

    Chubbier women are considered as good candidates for reproduction, this is why the men who only see women as a mean to produce children like heavier women.

    Men who like slim women see them as intelligent being who can contribute towards solving a man's day to day issues.

    Makes sense? Any other opinions please...

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 2:10 #
  31. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    @QN
    Mind your tongue oye!

    @BSO
    You are right on the dime. So what you are talking about is the mentality of agrarian society where wishing to have boys as much of norm as acquiring of a fat buffalo for husbandry and milk purposes. So primitivism speaks about that that men of these societies chooses their mate as per the principle of buying the fat cow on the block. That is what I meant from supply and demand rule. In a nutshell it is men to blame for it.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 3:11 #
  32. expakistani

    Amitab's describing use of all kind of Biwies

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 3:21 #
  33. Qaiser Nadeem

    Standards bohat high ho gaye her jagga, ab tou Punjab mein bhi nazuk kmar in ho gayi hai aur saath Urdu moseeqi, full Luckhnow style!

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 3:27 #
  34. Qaiser Nadeem

    QK,

    Just kidding, calm down!

    I think your analogy exudes racism but let's analyze it, shall we?

    Arab society is not agrarian and it's in to well endowed women, I can post the videos as evidence. Contrary to the popular belief the majority of Afghans culture is not in to well endowed women, they are more into other "nazuk" men and women.

    I don't know much about Turkish culture. Agrarian cultures of East Asia, China, Japan etc are not into well endowed women at all. Brazilian are in to badanakadonks, but Brazlian society is in no way shape or form an agrarian society.

    I think it's a personal choice, some men are in to "nazuk" women and some like 'em thick in those special areas.

    There is a very famous theory behind why black men like women with big you know what, I am sure you have heard it!

    Some men just need a thick women for satisfaction, others don't, it just how much you can handle!

    So, your analogy falls flat!

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 3:58 #
  35. Hussain Farooqui

    Like the concepts of viewing beauty, the concepts of physical heath are also variable from place to place. Every man likes to marry a healthy woman, so the likes and dislikes are of men are variable from society to society.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 7:57 #
  36. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    QN
    Don't be so quick to dismantle my theory. First find what agrarian means. It means agricuture. Pakistan is still an agricultural society and there is nothing racist about that, someone has to do that. Second i never mentioned arabian women, egyptians are considered africans since egypt is part of africa and they are known for best cotton in the world and also known for belly dancing, get the connection. Brazil is also an agrarian society known for biggest coffee producer hence brazilian women have to satisfy certain needs. Brazil is also known inexpensive breasst implants because there men likes it that way. Europe was like that at certain point due to the germanic tribes, you may find it in their paintings. But that perception changed after industrial revolution. So it is the case with pathans and punjabis, though many are not related to agriculture any more but mentality remained intact. As for the african americans, they were brought in as slaves to work on plantations to grow rice and what not. So it remained with them till this day. Get it.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 11:32 #
  37. bsobaid

    @Qaiser, this is a personal choice, I agree but when majority of personal choices in a society are similar they start manifesting in the shape of women the society present in public, which often happen to be the women in showbiz and entertainment business.

    I think Pathan tend to like heavier women and probably not so heavy men...but I may be wrong. Some pathan bhai who has lived in the area can confirm. The higher rate of homosexuality in pathan areas can probably be linked to the same reasons.

    I tend to agree with @Qaim's theory. Although in a way I think Qaiser is saying the same. Personal choices are developed due to raw emotions and needs and as unlikely as it may sound laws of attraction can be traced back to economic and survival needs.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 12:35 #
  38. justhuman

    @bsObaid

    In Ninties , while riding a cab in Karachi i asked the Pathan Driver , Why do you like Pushto movies . He replied because of Badar munir and Mussarat Shaheen. I asked him again what do u like in Mussarat Shaheen , he replied " Kya baRa baRa Baazo aur Raan hay uska :)

    Then i realized for that pathan driver "Beauty lies in the Thigh of the holder"

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 18:06 #
  39. bsobaid

    haaahaaahaa..

    man..that was super funny..

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 18:08 #
  40. bsobaid

    @Qaim and @Qaiser,

    Qaiser raised a good point about Chinese.
    Chinese is totally an agrarian society and has been like that forever, how come Chinese men taste is different??

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 18:15 #
  41. Dusky

    So he did not mention about her over size DD bazookas and background?? That's pretty disappointing. What's wrong with u my pashtoon brothers (pun intended)...:)

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 18:18 #
  42. Dusky

    Chines taste is differnent because of their physical attribute. How often you find fat chines people?

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 18:20 #
  43. bsobaid

    Dusky, I was gonna say that about Chinese...but then the demand should increase when supply is low..no??

    or may be because traditionally Chinese women have been in position of power and have been the bread earner more than men...so not like punjabi or pathan culture where women are more like a property...even though women work in fields too.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 18:23 #
  44. Qaiser Nadeem

    Obaid,

    You are so wrong about Punjabi culture, seems like you have taken stereo types as serious facts. Punjabi culture gives the most powerment to women out of all te cultures of subcontinent along with Bengali culture. As far as treating women as property is concerned, every single culture treats them as such including western cultures until the last century.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 20:44 #
  45. Dusky

    QN: tube video you posted seems someone's marriage video..... That's sickening to see wher Pakistani society is heading.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 21:28 #
  46. bsobaid

    Qaiser, I may be wrong there.

    Yes, the shaadi video you posted is pretty shocking. Although it appeared to me as Dubai or Sharjah rather than Lahore.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 22:02 #
  47. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    BSO
    Chinese is totally different ball game. There diet is quite different. With green tea, rice and fish, they maintained theselves slim. Also as you noted their women are very hard working. Working in rice paddies and grow three crops a year is something appreciatable (fyi: rest of the world grows two crops a year). There beauty sense is somewhat similar to turks and persians. As for the japanese, they are also equally industrious people, hailing from central asia, they carry similar traits as their chinese brethren. I don't consider them agrarian society as prior to industrialiazation, being an island nation, fisheries was their major food source.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 23:28 #
  48. Qaiser Nadeem

    This is Pakistan my friends, this a common thing in our country especially northern Punjab. This video is from Rawat, falls under Ch Nisar's constituency.

    I have seen videos where Cessna planes where hired to drop flowers on wedding procession along with USD notes.

    Posted 2 years ago on 16 Mar 2012 23:41 #
  49. Dusky

    Moti ho ya patli.... women, women hoti hay;)

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 1:23 #
  50. bsobaid

    Qaim, did'nt say japani have anything to do with Agriculture. Their land is arid and 100% food is imported.

    Speaking of hard work, our women dont work any less than any other women of the world. Our women work in fields, born one baby each year, prepare food for a family of twelve and get beaten up by saas and husband every other night and only eat left overs.

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 3:02 #
  51. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    And whose fault is that?

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 3:11 #
  52. quaidkamazaar

    well its pretty simple,

    women are more attractive if they can maintain themselves.... chubby girls are fat, and fat ladies are unattractive as there is fat hanging around... slim girls are good, especially those that can run on a treadmill... but not slim to the point that its all bones. u get my point. there should be slight tone to it.

    when it comes to city women vs rural women.... im 100% with city women because they know how to carry themselves and you can have great conversations and they are intellectual and they usually wont smell bad.

    traditional pakistani men like fat women because its probably sign of "good health" "khaata peeta gharana".... but its all crap and doesnt hold much substance. such women become size of elephant in no time.

    i apologize for too much description, some people might find it offensive talking about women kind as if they are non-human material, but i dont mean it that way.

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 3:49 #
  53. Rizwan Qaimkhani

    BSO
    The things you have mentioned is topic required another thread. Definitely, she is innocent till she is daughter-in-law. But once she bear a son and she become mother-in-law, the role reversed. What would you say about that, it is a never ending cycle. Who are the responsibles? As for all that zulm, in india saas burn their bahus for not bringing 'enough' dowries. Any eastern european countries are no different such as croatia and serbia so as the case with arabian and african nations. In short, this behaviour is not limited to pakistan only.

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 11:02 #
  54. Anadil Butt

    I,ve bn silence member of ths forum for 3 months but this funny and interesting topic compels me to be an active member...
    Its true tht most Pakistani( some how south Asian and Arabic women) r fat and Chubby(unattractive way).. The main reasons for ths r men domination, shyness, higher child-birthrate and lack of interest and awareness.. Pakistani women hesitate to do exercise cuz of cultural hindrance and barrier.. women hav to do routine work(not affect thier fatness) from early morning to late night' don't go to outside for exercise, havn't exercise equipment in home, and men feel sin to help them cuz they find some time for exersice... Spicy food and higher birthrate r also factors of women fatness... On other hand women of western and other thn above mentioned countries take part in games, craze of modeling,birth-control and selective food and daily exercise keep them smart and healthy

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 18:45 #
  55. samfisher

    I bet 95% people typing about fat women here are waste of protoplasm themselves.

    Posted 2 years ago on 17 Mar 2012 21:28 #

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